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| Friday, February 23rd 2024 |
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| Celebrating Women Who Love to Be On Top |
Let's talk about a truth that's as exhilarating as it is empowering: women who love to be on top. I'm here to shine a spotlight on these fearless females who take charge and own their pleasure like the queens they are.
From the bedroom to the boardroom, these women aren't afraid to take the reins and lead the way. They know what they want, and they're not afraid to go after it – whether it's in the bedroom, in their careers, or in life in general.
But being on top isn't just about physical dominance; it's about embracing your power and confidence in every aspect of your life. These women exude strength and charisma, inspiring others to follow their lead and reach for the stars.
So here's to the women who love to be on top – may they continue to rise above the rest and reign supreme in all that they do. After all, the world is their kingdom, and they're ready to rule it with style, grace, and a healthy dose of sass |
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| Tuesday, January 16th 2024 |
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| Latex, Dominance, and Fetishes |
The sleek, form-fitting allure of latex garments accentuates the curves, creating a visual symphony that mirrors the authority and sensuality of a dominant woman. Each contour becomes a statement, a celebration of the commanding presence that defines my identity.
Embracing fetishes is a journey of self-discovery, a canvas upon which desires are painted in bold strokes. Whether it's the tactile allure of latex against the skin or the exploration of nuanced fantasies, fetishes become a language through which I communicate my unapologetic passion for both control and pleasure.
Latex, dominance, and fetishes converge in a powerful narrative of empowerment—a story that challenges societal norms, celebrates individuality, and invites a deeper understanding of the complex layers that define desires. It's a journey that unfolds with each sleek garment, every assertive gesture, and the unapologetic exploration of the profound beauty found in embracing the unconventional. In this symphony of desires, I find strength, confidence, and the liberating embrace of my authentic self. |
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| Monday, July 26th 2021 |
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| Techniques for Being Dominant in the Bedroom |
Permission: Two key tensions at play during most dominant and submissive sexual experiences are permission and punishment. During this type of session, the sub must ask permission to perform certain activities—for instance, performing oral sex or orgasming—and when they act outside of the dominant partner’s rules, they receive a requisite punishment. When starting as the dom, consider setting up a few sexy rules (for instance, choosing the sex positions or what the sub is allowed to wear) and punishments. Common punishments include spanking, edging or chastity, and bondage.
Spanking and impact play: Erotic spanking is a type of impact play in which the dom uses their hands, a whip, paddle, or crop to spank parts of the sub’s body for consensual and mutual sexual pleasure. You can use spanking as foreplay before sexual intercourse or a kinky punishment during submission and domination play. Giving an erotic spanking can increase blood flow in the sub’s groin area and releases pleasurable chemicals in the brain, including endorphins and dopamine, to enhance sexual pleasure.
Dirty talk: Using a particular language in the bedroom is a key part of dominant behavior in a D/s relationship. As a dom, you can command your sub to address you with respectful pronouns (like “sir” or “madam”) to show that you’re in control. You can also use dirty talk to describe what you’re about to do to your sub or how you’d like them to be treating you. |
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| Monday, May 31st 2021 |
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| 5 Awkward But Effective Ways I’ve Initiated Sex |
A lot of my sexual initiations begin with “I kinda wanna,” actually. It’s less anxiety-provoking for me than a cocksure proclamation of intent, but it still communicates desire. “Would that be weird?” is really just another way of asking “Would that be okay?” or “How would you feel about that?” – a.k.a. requesting consent.
I said this while lying in bed talking with someone who I found intensely attractive but whose feelings about me I wasn’t sure of. I wanted to do much more than cuddle him (and eventually we did), but I figured this request would be a gentle way to test the waters. He laughed and said, “No, that wouldn’t be weird!” and I breathed a sigh of relief as he pulled me in toward him, because I had a much better sense of where I stood.
“Hey, you should spank me, if you want to.”
“You should…” is definitely bolder than “Do you want to…?” or “I kind of want you to…” but I felt okay being bold in this case, because the person in question had already told me he enjoys spanking people. And we had been flirting a bit, so I ventured to guess he’d be open to spanking me.
Knowing this was a ballsy way to phrase my request, I opted to soften it by adding, “If you want to.” This builds consent into the statement. I probably wouldn’t use this approach with someone shy and accommodating, because I’d want to make sure they actually wanted to do it, rather than just agreeing out of a sense of obligation. But the person in this case was someone I believed would state his objections if he had any. Lucky for me, he was on-board. |
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| Monday, May 17th 2021 |
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| Sex life as u get older |
People are often taken by surprise by some of the sexual issues that can develop as you get older. They may worry what these issues will mean for their sex life, and develop anxieties surrounding body image, self-confidence, or their identity as a sexual being.
The important thing to remember is that there’s nothing wrong with your body changing as you age. If you are finding it difficult to adjust to changes - physically or emotionally – try to remember you aren’t alone.
Issues for men
Men may notice a number of issues, including:
Erections not being as firm.
Not being as easily aroused by visual stimulation. A bit of direct physical stimulation – such as using the hands or mouth – can be a helpful way of getting and maintaining an erection.
Producing less semen.
Needing more time to rest between climaxes.
Women
Most women are aware of a number of gradual changes, many of which related to are progesterone and oestrogen levels falling as they reach the menopause. These often include:
Periods getting erratic and then stopping altogether.
A loss of libido.
Lack of lubrication.
Problems with sleeping
Night sweats.
Many women also find this period in their lives very liberating and often find that sex actually improves – as long as they’re able to communicate about their changing needs at this point. |
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| Tuesday, May 4th 2021 |
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| Adult couple games |
To play adult couples games with your partner might be your key to re-igniting that physical and emotional passion for intimacy and romance all in one. And this games will not just add a little kick to your relationship but might as well get to inspire your sex life. Playing sex games with your partner can shake up things up from life’s boring demands and responsibilities and allows the couple to create more intimate time.
Soon enough, the thrill of being in love and the burning passion for romance are replaced with the tired days and that a nap together would be better than some connecting and fun sex. On the other hand, your relationship might be just as great as you thought it could be, yet your life behind closed doors is getting a little too routine and sex has lost its fun and energy.
Playing fun adult couples games with your partner might just be the key for re-ignition! We’re not talking sleazy or smutty games, but fun interactions that are bound to build attention, appreciation and affection. |
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| Wednesday, April 21st 2021 |
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| A Simplified Guide To Safer [Oral] Sex |
Blowjobs, fellatio, giving head, eating out, cunnilingus, rimming. These are all terms used to reference oral sex which is any activity that involves the mouth, lips, or tongue, to stimulate the genitals, or anus of a sex partner. According to the CDC, more than 85% of sexually-active adults (ages 18 to 44) reported having oral sex at least once with a partner, showing just how common oral sex is.
The safest situation, other than abstaining from oral sex, is to only have oral sex if you are in a sexually monogamous relationship and you and your partner have both been tested recently. Not everyone is in this situation, and that should not deter you from having oral sex.
Oral sex can be extremely pleasurable, but it is important to take precautions since STI (Sexually Transmitted Infection) transmission can occur. Here are some critical things to know when engaging in oral sex. |
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| Monday, April 5th 2021 |
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| Make time for things you enjoy |
I ask every successful person I know what their “secret” is. What’s the key to a long life? Who’s better to answer that question than someone who can speak from experience?
Here’s what all these guys told me: You’ve got to stay curious. Keep learning new things, keep innovating. Don’t “retire” and call it quits. You’re toast the moment you do that.
Too much of our lives are dedicated to meaningless activities that keep us busy. But a life of curiosity doesn’t mean a life of busyness.
If you can’t call someone for 10 minutes because you’re busy, life is in control of you. Other people are in the driver seat of your life. This has happened to me too. And I can’t imagine that people want to live like that. It’s this feeling that you’re being lived by something else.
Here’s the thing: When you’re busy, you can’t be curious anymore. After all, you’re too busy for that, right? Big mistake. |
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| Monday, March 29th 2021 |
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| The Popularity of Puppy Play |
There's a reason that Puppy Play is on the rise. Actually, there are many reasons. This weekend I've had the pleasure of observing three actual dogs in their natural habitat (my parent's bungalow), and it's got me thinking about why humans love role playing as dogs so much.
Puppy Play, for those of you who are unaware, is a lighthearted type of power exchange roleplay that is accessible to kink newbies and veterens alike. It involves a Dominant player or Handler, and a Submissive player (or several submissives) usually called Pups. Pups are folks who have a desire for the primal role of a dog. This can mean many different things for its players, and there is a large spectrum of how people choose to explore this kink. One of my parent's dogs has currently usurped my foot as its pillow, so now is as good a time as any, to write about the exploration of this fetish that is ever growing in popularity.
Pup Play can intersect with lots of other fetishes, can involve being part of a Pack, and can include expensive and elaborate gear; but at its simplest form, it can be a very easy and low pressure kink to start out with. All you need to do, is get on your hands and knees. A super satisfying start up scene can be getting scratched behind the ear for ten minutes. As the Pup, all you need to do is receive the stimulation from your Handler. That's it. And, not even that. How many actual dogs do you know that get bored? Wander away? Start barking at something outside? The metaphorical doggie door opens to the unlimited scenes you can create.
Puppy Play, as far as I'm concerned, is the kink that can most closely resemble actualy play. This kink's most attractive feature is probably the carefree nature. Not that more intense scenes can't exist, but as I watch my Mom's chihuahua mix chase a ball across the room, I can't help but envy the simplicity of a dog's daily tasks. Humans engaging in Puppy Play often desire to access this feeling. There's something very meditative and soothing about completing basic tasks like doing tricks, engaging in repetitive types of play like fetch, receiving affectionate touch like getting pet on the head. That said, emptying your mind and being in the moment can be difficult for some. Especially when you're doing something new; something that may feel pretty silly at first, and all with someone watching over you. Pup Space, as it's called, can take a lot of focus and practice. The important thing is to try and have instant forgiveness for yourself when you feel your mind start to wander. Take each scene as a personal challenge to go deeper than the last one. People practice kink on a learning curve, and Pet Play is no exception. Take mental note of things that allow you to drop into your primal persona easily, and communicate them to your Handler afterwards. Is it a certain phrase? The ritual of putting of a specific piece of equipment? Being touched in a certain way? |
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| Monday, March 22nd 2021 |
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| Learn to prevent conflict |
A ‘perfect’ relationship is not one that has no conflict. It’s not that you are so ‘perfectly aligned’ that you never differ. That’s actually a sign that you are either seriously emotionally avoidant and not sharing your true feelings, or that there is a major power differential in the relationship where one always defers to the other.
Of course there is going to be difference – you are different people with different feelings and ideas and wants and needs. You always have and you lways will. From the myriad of small things throughout the day – what you’re having for dinner, who’s picking up the kids from school, through to major life issues like parenting styles, where you live, how you deal with aging parents, and of course sexual issues– you will inevitably differ on many issues.
Does that mean you have to fight and have a fractious relationship? Not at all. But it does mean that you have to develop your relationship skills so that you handle difference well.
I describe this in three ways: how you prevent conflict, how you manage it when it occurs, and how you repair quickly if it goes bad.
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| Monday, March 15th 2021 |
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| Be honest during sex and express yourself! |
With an expanding subset of our culture promoting bodily autonomy, emphasizing consent, expanding ways to date, hook up, or relate, and finally having discussions about pleasure, more people seem to be craving sex of a higher quality. Mindfulness maybe the answer
There have been numerous studies that concluded the benefits that mindfulness can have on an individual, from reduced stress and anxiety to deeper compassion and awareness. So if Mindful practices can make up feel happier and healthier as individuals, how can they benefit our sex lives and relationships?
What is Mindfulness?
You may have heard of the term Mindfulness, but what is it exactly? Mindfulness is the psychological process of bringing one's attention to experiences occurring in the present moment, or in other terms, getting out of your head and into the current situation. The practice of mindfulness can be explored in many different ways but some of the more common applications are meditation, cognitive and talk therapy, breathing exercises, and visualization methods.
Though mindfulness is having a moment within the current culture dialogue, mindful practices and methods that predated its development have been around for thousands of years dated to early Buddhist ideas and developed through the western narrative during the Transcendentalism movement during the 19th century. As research into Mindfulness demonstrate its many benefits, mindful practices have been implemented into vast number of private, social, and government programs, including therapy theory, within schools, as part of business training, and prison programs.
How Can Mindfulness Improve Your Sex Life?
Clinical studies have documented many physical and mental benefits of practicing Mindfulness including a general reduction in symptoms of depression, stress and anxiety. Further detailed studies have concluded that Mindfulness may be helpful to those who suffer with chronic pain, feeling disconnected from their body, and for those who have been victims of sexual violence. Physical and mental pain and stressors have long been associated with a decreased level of sexual satisfaction, therefore the symptom reduction, relief, and healing that mindful practices can offer can enhance your sexual happinesses.
Mindfulness Sex Exercises
Practicing Mindfulness doesn’t have to be a complicated endeavor. There are many tangible applications that be can specifically tailored to your needs. These are just a few examples of mindfulness practices that can enhance your sex life and help solve some sexual issues.
Eye Gazing
Taking the time to connect with a partner can be an important part of boosting your sexual satisfaction. As most of us are living fast paced and stimulated lives, sex and intimacy can sometimes feel like a rushed afterthought. Slow things down with your partner and create some intimacy and intensity between you both.
-Take a few minutes before sex to gaze into one another's eyes. Once you get past the giggles and maybe the urge to start a staring contest, start to notice how this connection makes you feel.
-Eye gazing with a partner can prompt the release of the feel good hormone Oxytocin, sometimes referred to as the bonding hormone. This is the same hormone that is released during climax and orgasm.
-Revisit this gaze during sex if you feel inclined. A prolonged gaze every now and again can help maintain the feeling of closeness.
Grounding
Mindful practices that work to get us back in touch with our physical self can have an impactful grounding effect for many situations. Sometimes we can feel disconnected from our bodies, experience self-esteem issues, or feel discomfort with ourselves due to physical pain. Grounding practices have also been very helpful for people who experience anxiety, panic attacks, or are finding themselves triggered. Try this simple practice to help you feel more control over your body.
-Get yourself into a comfortable position where not moving for several minutes will feel ok. Lying down is ideal, but any position where you feel fully supported works.
-Close your eyes and focus on your breathing with an effort to slow it down. If closing you eyes feels difficult, focus your gaze on one spot instead.
-Starting at the lowest point of your body (usually the toes for most of us) start to scan each individual body part. Assess how it feels and then try to relax it further. Move progressively from body part to body part (toes to ankles to calves to shins to knees etc) spending about 30 seconds on each area until you reach the top of your head. If you find a particular area of your body too upsetting or triggering to engage with, skip that area.
-When you reach the top of your head, focus again on your breath. Visualize your breath flowing through all areas of your body to restore it.
Express Yourself
It can be hard to have honest and open conversations about sex and it’s clear to see why. Many of us were not taught the communication skills necessary for having such vulnerable dialogues during our sexual education (if we had any at all). But being able to have conversations about sex is important - it’s how we discuss consent, boundaries, and preferences. Mindful writing or journaling can be a great way to familiarize yourself with your need and wants and give words to them.
-Try writing down how you feel about a certain aspect of sex, an upcoming or previous sexual encounter, or something you want to express to your partner.
-Don’t be judgmental of what you write, instead think of the exercise as more of a free writing session where you write down everything that comes to mind when you think it.
-Read over your thoughts. Circle or highlight anything you find important or that stands out.
-Practice reading your writing, especially the phrases or words that make you feel most uncomfortable.
-An optional conclusion to your writing exercise is to thrown away or tear up what you wrote. This can be particularly freeing if you find yourself stuck on or bothered by a subject you wrote about. |
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| Wednesday, March 3rd 2021 |
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| Life as a camgirl |
Social media thrives on extremes. Ditto the stereotype of the CAMGIRL. Either you’re broke, desperate, abject, worthy of scorn, hungry for scraps of attention and recognition — or you are a deity, an icon, an alpha — unshakable, demanding of worship and emulation, endlessly glamorous, spoiled, jet-setting, caviar-spooning, Benjamin-stacking.
But me? I live in the world in between. The world of nuance, subtlety, layers of meaning that slowly unfurl over time as you get to know me. I’m not flashy, I’m not in your face. I’m just me.
In other words: I’m a terrible fit for social media.
Ironic, really, because a significant part of my vanilla career was…you guessed it…advising companies on how to be good at social media.
know the game. I know how to play it. Mostly, I don’t.
Because here’s the thing about being a camgirl: discretion and privacy — yours and your clients’ — must come first. I’m utterly hard-line about this. |
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| What is your starsign? |
Aries March 21 - April 20 |
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| What is your Primary Language? |
Romanian |
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| What is your Secondary Language? |
English |
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| How would you describe your non-binary gender? |
Cisgender |
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| If other, please specify: |
no |
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| What is your favourite colour? |
Red |
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| Who is your favourite celebrity? |
Adele |
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| What three words best describe your personality? |
Seductive ,Fun and Adventurous |
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| What is your favourite food? |
Lobster |
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| What is your favourite drink? |
Margarita |
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| What is your favourite film? |
Interstellar |
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| What is your favourite TV programme? |
Temptation Island |
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| What are your favourite flowers? |
Red roses |
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| What is your favourite perfume? |
La vie est belle ,Lancome |
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| What is your favourite gift? |
Diamonds |
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| What is your favourite holiday destination? |
Mexico,Cancun |
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| What is your ethnicity? |
Caucasian (White) |
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| What is the colour of your eyes? |
Blue |
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| What is the colour of your hair? |
Blonde |
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| What length is your hair? |
Medium |
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| How would you describe your body type? |
Slim |
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| How tall are you? |
5'5" |
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| How much do you weigh? |
9½st |
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| What is your leg measurement? |
28" |
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| What is your shoe size? |
6 |
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| What size is your chest? |
30" |
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| What is your waist measurement? |
28" |
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| What is your hips measurement? |
36" |
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| What is your bra cup-size? |
B |
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| How would you describe the size of your breasts? |
Medium |
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| Are your breasts natural or enhanced? |
Natural |
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| How is your pubic hair fashioned? |
Shaved Completely |
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| Do you smoke? |
Yes |
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| Do you have any tattoos or piercings? |
Neither |
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| If you have tattoos or piercings, how discreet are they |
None |
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| Do you have any birth-marks or scars? If so, size and location? |
nope |
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| What is the most embarrassing thing that has ever happened to you in public? |
When i was in middle school in romeo and juliet play,i forgot all my lines and kids really laughed at me. |
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| What sort of men turn you on? |
Ambitious men with a huge sense of humour. |
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| What sort of women turn you on? |
Usually candid shy women. |
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| What is the most memorable sexual experience you’ve ever had? |
In Paris i had a one night stand with a black man. |
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| What is the most outrageous thing that you’ve done sexually (be honest!) |
I cheated on my bf with his best friends.ooopsss |
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| Where would you most like to have sex? |
In Zanzibar on the beach. |
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| What is your favourite sexual position? |
On top. |
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| What is your second favourite sexual position? |
doggy style |
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| What is your biggest turn on? |
Men who wax and smell nice. |
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| The most sensitive part of my anatomy is? |
My ear lobes |
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| Describe the experience (when and where) |
Anywhere anytime. |
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| What is your favourite sexual fantasy? |
To have sex with a famous person. |
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| How often do you masturbate? |
every two days. |
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| What sexual activity do you enjoy the most? |
I love oral. |
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| When is your libido at its highest? |
In the mornings |
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