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Wednesday, January 17th 2024 |
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MEN WANT MORE SEX IN WINTER, SAYS SCIENCE |
Winter weather brings us steamier sex? New research suggests that men have a higher sex drive during winter months. Now we can stop complaining about the cold and start reaping its benefits.
I like to read some news when I have the time and found a recent study published in The Psychology of Human Sexuality, no.. I didn't search it, he found me, but I really enjoy it. In this study 114 men rated their perceived attractiveness of two sets of photos – one of women’s faces, and one of women’s bodies. Shown these images every 3 months over the course of a year, researchers noticed that attraction levels for the images of the faces did not change – but the body images saw fluctuating levels, especially during colder months.
From December to February, attraction levels rose and peaked, while in June, July and August they reached their lowest readings for the entire year. In fact, survey subjects who were in the same relationship throughout the study reported that attraction to their partners peaked in winter as well, proving that even a summer love can become more intense during the winter.
Researchers suggest that all the extra bared skin we see when the heat is on makes for a flesh overload in the minds of men, and the more covered-up wardrobes women wear in winter makes the sight of just a little skin all the more arousing. The unchanging attraction to faces supports this argument, the reason being that faces are seen all year round and thus there are no dry spells surrounding them.
Another study about “Seasonal variations in sexual activity and their implications for sexual health promotion” by the Journal of The Royal Society of Medicine examines weekly condom purchases throughout the year. A heavy spike during the week of Christmas suggests an increase of sexual activity or anticipation of increase in sexual activity. The study also analyzes sexual activity reverse calculated by birth patterns, suggesting that while there is a spike in sex during the summer, there’s an even bigger spike in sex at the turn of the year.
The romanticism around the holidays causes “cuffing season”, which is a millennial talk for finding a significant other in time for the holidays. Other studies find that the isolation that comes with staying inside more during colder months leads us to crave human interaction and closeness.
Physically speaking, it also helps us generate heat. Ever rushed through summer sex to avoid a heat stroke? It’s common, and the exact reason why “more” sex in winter also means longer love-making. Perhaps that’s why 9 months after big power outages and snow storms come baby booms.
So, embrace your cuddling and flood your body with happy hormones. Stay horny in the name of science. |
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Wednesday, September 6th 2023 |
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Winter sex? But it's so cold... |
Right now we can feel the Summer is already passing and Autumn is taking it's place with the cozy weather and sweater weather. I don't know about most of you but I prefer a cold weather over the hot one. I mean.. I understand Spring and Summer have their perks but a cold weather... brrr... delicious. And I say this because the topic for today is ...
Winter weather brings us steamier sex?
New research suggests that men have a higher sex drive during winter months. Now you can stop complaining about the cold and start reaping its benefits.
In a recent study published in The Psychology of Human Sexuality, 114 men rated their perceived attractiveness of two sets of photos – one of women’s faces, and one of women’s bodies. Shown these images every 3 months over the course of a year, researchers noticed that attraction levels for the images of the faces did not change – but the body images saw fluctuating levels, especially during colder months.
From December to February, attraction levels rose and peaked, while in June, July and August they reached their lowest readings for the entire year. In fact, survey subjects who were in the same relationship throughout the study reported that attraction to their partners peaked in winter as well, proving that even a summer love can become more intense during the winter.
Why? Researchers suggest that all the extra bared skin we see when the heat is on makes for a flesh overload in the minds of men, and the more covered-up wardrobes women wear in winter makes the sight of just a little skin all the more arousing. The unchanging attraction to faces supports this argument, the reason being that faces are seen all year round and thus there are no dry spells surrounding them.
According to the UC Health Media Group, winter also affects our mood in a variety of ways—and not really for the better. Amongst common health problems like overall dryness and decreased exercise, SAD, or seasonal affective disorder, is a type of depression that causes irritability and social withdrawal. Perhaps this loneliness is the reason why we especially crave the closeness and intimacy with a partner.
And what about women’s seasonal sexual arousal? Well, that’s a study that’s yet to be conducted. However, there are a number of other factors that could influence this peak in sexual performance.
The romanticism around the holidays causes “cuffing season”, which is a millennial talk for finding a significant other in time for the holidays. Other studies find that the isolation that comes with staying inside more during colder months leads us to crave human interaction and closeness.
Physically speaking, it also helps us generate heat. Ever rushed through summer sex to avoid a heat stroke? It’s common, and the exact reason why “more” sex in winter also means longer love-making. Perhaps that’s why 9 months after big power outages and snow storms come baby booms.
So, embrace your cuddling and flood your body with happy hormones. Stay horny in the name of science and don't forget the fireplace lit next to the bear fur |
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Thursday, April 27th 2023 |
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Socks? Who knew? |
Let’s be honest, we spend quite a lot of time and money finding ways to look sexier during sex. Think lace lingerie, latex clothing, crotchless panties, balaclavas, leather cuffs, strap-ons, chockers, and everything in between…
All these clothing pieces and accessories are supposed to make us sexier and increase our chances of having a mindblowing orgasm. But what if I told you that there is one piece of clothing you haven’t considered that might have a better chance of giving you the best O of your life?
Believe it or not, science says that socks might be the only piece of clothing you’ll ever need to wear to have better orgasms.
THE STUDY THAT STARTED IT ALL
In 2005, University of Groningen conducted a study where he looked into male and female orgasms. The researchers asked 13 heterosexual couples aged 19-49 to participate in the experiment.
During the experiment, the researchers asked one partner to lie down in the scanner while their partner stimulated them until they reached orgasm so researchers could observe their brain activity. And then partners would switch and repeat the experiment.
Originally, this study wasn’t dedicated to finding out whether wearing socks during sex is beneficial or not. However, by accident, researchers found that cold feet played part in how efficient the couples were in reaching an orgasm.
Some of the participants complained about cold feet and so they were given socks to wear during sex. Researchers found that out of those couples who wore socks, 80% were able to reach an orgasm. Before they were given socks, only 50% of those same couples climaxed.
So, happy and warm feet equals more orgasms, right? Well, it turns out not quite.
SO, WHAT’S THE TRUTH? That study inspired a lot of articles in the media, claiming that wearing socks during sex is the key to having more orgasms for both men and women. However, drawing such conclusions is not quite right.
Studying human sexuality is not an easy feat. It requires a lot of time and effort to conclude any findings to be something that’s conclusive enough to be discussed as the norm. Before sexologists and researchers can conclude that something is indeed proven, there needs to be more than one small study dedicated to researching it.
Saying that socks improve our chances of an orgasm based on this one study is not a reliable source. Sadly, the phenomenon of “warm feet” and its impact on climax hasn’t been studied enough to give us a conclusive answer on whether or not to wear socks during sex work.
However, wearing socks during sex is definitely not something that’ll cause harm to either you or your partner. And, some research suggests that the whole theory is correct if we look at human physiology and psychology.
Wearing socks during sex can be one of the ways to feel more comfortable and safe, which can help your body relax and reach orgasm easier. Just like wearing socks to sleep is preferred by some people because it’s warm and cozy and fuzzy, the same applies to sex.
Another thing that might improve the chances of an orgasm while wearing socks is simple anatomy – wearing socks warms your feet, which means your blood circulation is improved. And what do we know about increased blood circulation? It’s key to achieving an orgasm.
Also, one thing that can ruin an orgasm faster than anything is unwanted distractions. Having cold feet yourself, or having your partner rub their ice-cold feet on you can be an unwanted distraction at the worst time. Wearing socks can help eliminate the chances of any unwanted distractions.
IT’S ALL ABOUT FINDING WHAT WORKS FOR YOU If you want to find out if wearing socks during sex brings you more or better orgasms, the best thing to do is try it yourself. Especially if you find yourself being cold or having cold feet often.
What you choose to do or wear in the bedroom is between you and your partner. If wearing socks together or one of you helps have better sex, then it’s all great. No need for scientists or sexologists to tell you what you should or shouldn’t do. Do what’s best for you.
Now, if you choose to wear socks during sexy times, keep in mind that wearing clean socks is key. Good personal hygiene is key and your partner will appreciate not having to deal with socks that you’ve been sweating in all day.
Also, you might want to choose socks that are comfortable and soft. Your feet might be rubbing against your partner’s legs and it’ll be much nicer if the material of the socks is soft and doesn’t distract them.
And listen, if wearing socks with your partner during sex turns out not to work, don’t sweat it! At least you both have a good story to laugh about. |
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Friday, March 10th 2023 |
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THE THRILL OF CLOTHED FEMALE, NAKED MALE (CFNM) |
I think we heard quite a lot about CFNM in the last period of time about this, me included.. So let me make some light about this topic.
WHAT IS CLOTHED FEMALE, NAKED MALE (CFNM)? In the realm of BDSM, more specifically FemDom (female domination), CFNM is when a dominant woman is in the company of a submissive male who isn’t wearing clothes. In this way the male’s vulnerability and submission is emphasized, and the female’s control is heightened.
The fun doesn’t just stop there though…
During this kind of scene, the female has been given the consent of the naked male to perform all kinds of erotic acts on them, which is usually that of humiliation, teasing, and bondage.
Pretty cool if you ask me but Why is such a big deal? Clothed Female, Naked Male (CFNM) is essentially about the power of the female gaze, in this case: sexual power. In this way the male is the object, which goes against mainstream society, especially porn.
The majority of porn videos have been created with the male gaze in mind. And so, when the roles are reversed, it gives females a sense of power and control. This alone can be an erotic thought, almost to the point of it being a taboo.
CFNM can also merely be a form of porn and/or entertainment for women. It’s a role reversal whereby the female is sexually liberated while the men are seen as sex objects.
For males, Clothed Female, Naked Male (CFNM) can be highly appealing for a number of different reasons. They may have an exhibitionism kink, which is then explored during this kind of play. For many men, exposing themselves in front of a woman can be very arousing.
HOW TO PRACTICE CLOTHED FEMALE, NAKED MALE (CFNM) AT HOME
So you want to give CFNM a go! You needn’t be in the BDSM community, nor practice any other kind of non-vanilla sexual acts, to enjoy it. It can be experienced at whatever level you and your partner are comfortable with. You could even enjoy it as a form of role play, if that’s what you’re into.
With that, here are some ways you can practice CFNM…
*Have the female wear a high-powered suit or uniform of someone in authority (police uniform, for example), which would further fuel the power exchange *Have the male wear a chastity belt, and nothing else, for the female’s sexual pleasure and control *Have the male wear the female’s underwear (partial nudity still counts) as a form of humiliation *Have the male serve the female in any capacity., cleaner, butler, a piece of human furniture, the giver of sexual pleasure *Have the male worship the female’s feet
So, while some of these examples are more intense than others, there’s surely something spicy in the list for you to give Clothed Female, Naked Male (CFNM) a go? If you’re intrigued, we say go for it!
Just remember that consent is always necessary, before, during, and after, and aftercare is also important to make sure that both partners feel appreciated, satisfied, and happy, while having a good sense of overall well-being. |
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Friday, February 24th 2023 |
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Safe words? Do we really need them? |
*What Is a Safe Word?*
A safe word is something that you can say–a word or a phrase–during kink or sex activities to indicate that, at least temporarily, you need to stop. It could end play entirely.
Why Do People Use Safe Words?
At its most basic, a safe word is used to communicate how you’re doing with your partner. Typically, a safe word is used to stop play, allowing you to check in and make adjustments before resuming or stopping play entirely if something is wrong that cannot be corrected.
Some people try to avoid using safe words, perhaps because they want to be tough, don’t want to disappoint their partner, or think they should only use safe words during an emergency. But that’s not the case! Safe words can be used in a variety of situations:
* The scene doesn’t feel how you intended * Play is bringing up negative feelings or trauma * A medical issue * Cramps or other discomforts * The activity is too intense
Safe words during vanilla sex – Finally, while safe words are usually associated with BDSM, you can certainly use one with “vanilla” sex. Sure, sex might be less risky than kinky activities in some ways, but it’s not completely risk-free.
Like most things, it’s better to be safe than sorry. If you choose a safe word and never have to use it, nothing bad happens.
However, without a safe word something bad could happen during play and you won’t have a clear way to communicate it.
Safe Words Within BDSM - Many people know safe words from BDSM, which can include activities such as blood play or suspension that carry more risk than vanilla sex. A safe word is a clear signal to your partner that you’re not saying something as part of the BDSM role.
They say I don’t need a safe word – As a side note, if you’re a submissive and your dominant partner says you don’t need or can’t have a safe word, you might want to reconsider any activities with them. Any person who recognizes the risk and responsibilities that come with kink should be okay with you wanting to use a safe word–and follow other BDSM rules.
Negotiation Negotiation happens before a scene or BDSM game or entering a relationship. Now, “negotiation” can sound very structured or rigid, but it doesn’t have to be. It could be a verbal agreement about what you want to do, what you don’t, medical information, safe words, and any other concerns or information that can be helpful for playing with you.
The most important thing about choosing a safe word is discussing it with your partner. After all, how can someone recognize and respond to a safe word if they don’t know what it is or what your safe word means?
*It should be easy to say – We’ve included a list of potential safe words below but if you use your own, keep it easy to say and hear. You might want to avoid words that rhyme with “Yes or “No,” which may already say during a BDSM scene or sex session.
*Unusual, unsexy and funny safe words work great – Similarly, use words that would be strange or unusual to say during sex or BDSM. Some people opt for words or names that are particularly unsexy because they ruin the mood and make it easier to realize you’re in distress and stop the activity. Although it’s not a hard and fast rule, you don’t need a sexy safe word. You just want one that works.
For that same reason, a funny safe word could be a good idea if it makes you laugh and disrupts the scene, allowing you to focus on each other’s safety and security.
Remember that some people can’t speak or hear at all, so they need an option that doesn’t involve speaking a safe word.
If you or your partner is tied up, then you may have limited ability to move or not be able to use both your hands, so something that only requires a single hand makes for the best safe word idea in those scenarios.
What to Do When Someone Uses a Safe Word Ideally, you’ll discuss with your partner what to do after one of you uses a safe word before you begin playing or having sex. But if you haven’t, the main thing to remember is…
Stop.
Stop the activity, whether it be penetration, tying them up, impact play, or something else. This allows you to check in with your partner, which could be a simple “Are you okay?” or “What’s the matter?”
If your partner is gagged and has used a stop mechanism, remove the gag to allow them to speak. You have every right to repeat your safe word, break out of the scene (if you can), and leave. Advocate for yourself; however, you need to keep yourself safe. You certainly don’t have to play, have sex, or continue a relationship with anyone who has ignored your safe word if you don’t want to.
With safe words and stop mechanisms, you can enjoy kink, BDSM, rough sex, or any other activity in the bedroom. Of course, these activities still present various levels of risk, but discussing safe words, among other things, ensures you’re prepared should something go wrong. |
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Wednesday, February 1st 2023 |
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Sex in a bath is a bit hard |
There’s nothing wrong with mind-blowingly wonderful sex, It’s a bloody good thing. However, it’s a bloody good thing that is almost impossible to do in the water. There seems to be quite a common misconception that watery sex is one of the funnest fucks you can have – it’s wet, it’s slippery, you can be comfortably naked, etc. Men I’ve known seem to particularly enjoy the look and feel of a nice, wet pair of tits. Understandable.
However, just because my tits are wet that doesn’t mean we’re going to have good sex. Sex in water is rubbish – the water washes away all of those natural cunty juices that make penetration so fun. Lubes wash away, too. Essentially by having sex in the bath you’re removing one of the crucial things about fucking – the slicky wetness.
Women’s and men’s magazines alike carry hot stories of watery sex – couples coupling on beaches, in baths, in swimming-pools and showers. Exotic confessions written in breathy, sexy tones imply that this fucking is amazing – what could be hotter than having sex on a beach? I’ll tell you what’s hotter than sex on a beach: having sex in a fucking bed!
I think it’s the fact that its unusual – lots of people have a desire to fuck in places where they traditionally wouldn’t and I totally understand that the unusual nature of it makes it a bit sexier. That’s why the ‘hot sex confessions’ section of magazines is so often filled with stories like this:
“The best sex I ever had was during a romantic bath with my partner. I sat in front of him and he soaped my breasts, then I sat on him and, with gentle rocking motions and the water lapping at our hips, we both came together in a nice wet explosion.”
One of the key problems is that baths are really small. I don’t care how tiny and delicate you are, in a bath with another person you’re always going to feel big. A big, awkward slippery pile of elbows.
Baths: shave your legs in one, wash your hair in one, have a wank in one if you fancy it, but for crying out loud don’t ever try to fuck me in one. |
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Thursday, November 17th 2022 |
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Obedience is the key for pleasure ! [;)] |
Everybody likes the fetishes deep down. Each person got a special kink which can drive her or him into some undiscovered sensations! I am fully open to let you know about me and why I like certain fetishes. I will talk today about the feelings I have when I am worshiped and spoiled by a true servant. First of all, I go for the domination side of the story, because as many understand I like to be in control. But not the mischievous and evil control, but the caring and good one. In order to experience a perfect dome-sub experience, you have to master the communication first. Once you know your servant good and also when you explain yourself clear, it all becomes a piece of cake. Knowing the needs of your sub, will ease everything and will help you fulfill his deepest needs, some that he doesn't even know he craves for. When the needs are fulfilled, the reward its limitless!
Don't burry your wishes, explore them with me! 🖤
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Monday, January 10th 2022 |
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ALL YOU NEED IS LOVE! |
Yes, that is correct! All you need is love... Love can change all...and here I am not talking about real love, I am talking about the love we can share online, the love of being naughty...the love of being pervert and excited...the love of masturbating and discovering ourselves..the love of cumming together for each one... The love of making love thru cameras, the love of hearing my voice calling your name, the love of your breathe and sweat.... Let me enjoy all this , let me feel this love... So... what if we do this and have a feedback from it both of ourselves? Usually I get great feedbacks for sharing this kind of love, but I want to give my feedback to you too... with my shaking hands... or with my mind far away after we get a hot , crazy or educative conversation... so...ALL YOU NEED IS LOVE.... |
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Sunday, September 12th 2021 |
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Why all wants anal? |
Well, Everyone likes a juicy ass, and mostly likes to play wit...either way you kiss and lick or just grab it while you kiss a woman .... An ass is one of the best part of a woman's body but why men wants to fuck it?:))) Besides normal sex, anal sex is extremely satisfy for men (even for women ---but needs some training lol) and all because is TIGHTER! Lets think about what would happen if all women could make anal so easy...or could fuck men's ass so easy...:)))? well, i wish i could be able to make anal , but not so many men are patient to train my virgin ass....is anyone patient/:))) |
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Tuesday, August 3rd 2021 |
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Threesome MFF |
I love when a man propose me to have sex with another man , but when he asks me to have sex with another woman, this gets me a bit anxious . But I did it for him... and it felt ...hmmm...How can I start ...it is a friend we met in our trip in Paris, and we saw her she had big boobs (me coming on with a hot booty) ... we spoke with her and she loved oral sex a lot, I mean like giving and receiving ....this made me so horny and wanted to try it on...you know..? there's a word saying that a woman knows better than a man to lick and hit the right spot :D We went to our hotel room and they started to kiss, it was like my man knew how is all going to be... I felt bit anxious but meanwhile I started to touch myself...it made me so hot seeing my man being sucked by a hot woman, taking his hardness between her big boobs... he was slapping his face with his cock and she was drolling over her boobs so much....she looked at me and came down on me, licking me with her mouth wet and full of saliva, sucking on my clit so good... she worshiped my body literally ... my man started to fuck her from behind while she made me cum in her mouth ... the whole experience made me feel so good, made me explore more and want so more.... Are you into this kind of #some? Wanna have such an experience with me and see how we would behave? We can make a hot story ... |
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Friday, March 26th 2021 |
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Getting to know me! |
Hello there my dear ones !
I a writing this small blog because I want you to get to know more about me .
Many people ask me if I'm Latina , but I want to let you know that I am Romanian . I enjoy very much to socialize , get to have people around me most of the time , but also I crave for the "me moments" when I can pamper and spoil myself . As every woman in this Universe I do love shopping but only in a few categories , my biggest pleasure are the perfumes ! If some believe that we never have enough shoes I believe that we never have enough perfumes !
I decided to start this camming journey to add some more experience in my life . I believe everyone here got something to teach me so I am anxious to create amazing bonds with some of you !
These being said , a big hug and a kiss goes to everyone !
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Look into my eyes and let yourself loved
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Hands up! I’m the FBI, and you’re on my most-wante |
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When can I see you again? |
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I feel so confident in this way! |
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I adore when I ride and take control... mmmmm |
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Bend me over and lets have fun! |
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Have you ever seen something more magical? |
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What is your starsign? |
Cancer June 22 - July 22 |
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What is your Primary Language? |
Romanian |
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What is your Secondary Language? |
English |
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How would you describe your non-binary gender? |
Cisgender |
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If other, please specify: |
NONE |
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What is your favourite colour? |
White |
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Who is your favourite celebrity? |
Jennifer Lopez |
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What is your best feature? |
Face |
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What is your worst feature? |
Feet |
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What three words best describe your personality? |
Empathetic, clever, selfless |
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What is your favourite food? |
Healthy food. |
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What is your favourite drink? |
Orange juice. |
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What is your favourite film? |
I can t pick just one |
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What is your favourite TV programme? |
Kardasian's family |
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What are your favourite flowers? |
Roses |
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What is your favourite perfume? |
Ma vie |
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What is your favourite gift? |
I just love surprises |
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What is your favourite holiday destination? |
Maldives |
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What is your ethnicity? |
Caucasian (White) |
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What is the colour of your eyes? |
Brown |
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What is the colour of your hair? |
Red |
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What length is your hair? |
Shoulder length |
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How would you describe your body type? |
Slim |
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How tall are you? |
5'4" |
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How much do you weigh? |
8st |
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What is your leg measurement? |
27" |
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What is your shoe size? |
2 |
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What is your dress size? |
6 |
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What size is your chest? |
34" |
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What is your waist measurement? |
26" |
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What is your hips measurement? |
36" |
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What is your bra cup-size? |
C |
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How would you describe the size of your breasts? |
Medium |
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Are your breasts natural or enhanced? |
Natural |
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How is your pubic hair fashioned? |
Shaved Completely |
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Do you smoke? |
Yes |
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Do you have any tattoos or piercings? |
Neither |
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If you have tattoos or piercings, how discreet are they |
None |
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Do you have any birth-marks or scars? If so, size and location? |
none |
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What is the most embarrassing thing that has ever happened to you in public? |
I realized that in the windy summer day I must wear panties when wearing a dress... Wind was showing my ass to everyone when entering a restaurant last summer! |
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What sort of men turn you on? |
Kind and talktive ones! |
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What sort of women turn you on? |
Feminine ones |
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What is the most memorable sexual experience you’ve ever had? |
On the beach! |
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What is the most outrageous thing that you’ve done sexually (be honest!) |
I have been eating cake from a lovers body |
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Where would you most like to have sex? |
Anywhere |
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What is your favourite sexual position? |
Doggy |
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What is your second favourite sexual position? |
Cowgirl |
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What is your biggest turn on? |
Spanking my ass |
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The most sensitive part of my anatomy is? |
NECK |
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Describe the experience (when and where) |
It happend with a guy who was in the same resort with me . We had sex on the beach until the sunrise |
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What is your favourite sexual fantasy? |
Sex in public |
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How often do you masturbate? |
It depends of my mood. |
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What sexual activity do you enjoy the most? |
Oral sex. |
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When is your libido at its highest? |
always |
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