Hello there. I'm Steffi, a friendly and easygoing gal with a mind that is pure filth.
I'm very upfront and like to get straight down to business, so without further ado, here are the dirty details you're looking for...
First, one thing I must be very clear about - I am *not* offering penetration of myself (V or A), so please don't ask. I do offer lots of other fun things such as:
- JOI
- hand relief
- titfucking
- oral
- dirty talk, practically my 2nd language
- BDSM
- CIM (at discretion), or "C" anywhere else on my body if you like
- more..?!?!
I am also a pro-domme, and kink/fetish specialist. See the BDSM, kink & fetish tab for more details.
I have some vinyl, latex and faux leather outfits, some of which appear in my gallery. I also have a nurse outfit if you fancy a little hospital roleplay. Or I can just wear my everyday clothes, or be completely naked the entire time - it's up to you!
If you want to chat before or after our fun times, you'll find I'm a good listener, and knowledgeable about all sorts of topics (my university education has to be good for something, right?) I'm also a giant nerd so, hey, if you want to talk about Star Trek or comic books, I'm down.
Disabled or neurodivergent clients welcome. My flat has step-free access.
You can't see it in my photos but I wear glasses. A lot of people like the sexy teacher vibe, but if you prefer I can take them off (just don't make me read any small print).
My usual availability is 10am - 10pm at weekends, and 5pm - 10pm weekdays. See the booking info tab for more on how to book me.
In-calls:
I have a lovely flat near the centre of Colchester, with ample on-site parking. If you're coming by public transport, I'm less than ten minutes walk from the bus station and Colchester Town Station.
I usually see clients in my living room, which has a comfy sofa and is always kept clean and tidy. There are yoga mats if anyone is getting down on their knees. If you would prefer the bedroom, that's fine, but please give me advance notice so I can make sure it's ready.
Out-calls:
I can do outcalls within the Colchester area and will consider calls to surrounding towns (e.g. Chelmsford, Ipswich). My rate will be my usual plus a reasonable extra for travel time and costs, so will vary depending on how far I have to go. Message me and we'll work something out!
Please note I ideally require 24 hours notice for both in calls and out calls. If you want to book something more short notice, you are welcome to ask, but I can't guarantee anything.
Here is non-exhaustive list of all the BDSM, kink and fetish activities I am willing to take part in:
- Anal play
- (Light) Bondage
- CEI
- Cuckolding (with couples)
- Domestic servitude
- Financial Domination
- Foot worship (including boot worship)
- Feminisation / sissy training
- Golden showers (giving) +£20 extra fee
- Human furniture
- Humiliation
- Ignore sessions
- Impact play & spanking
- Orgasm control/denial
- Pet play
- Strap-on play/worship
Please note that where relevant I would be in the Top/Dominant role, and you would be the submissive/bottom. I don't switch for clients.
As a Domme I am strict but have a playful side. I expect obedience and politeness from subs at all times.
My limits
I will not do any play involving the following:
- blood
- ballbusting
- anything with a risk of serious injury
- foodplay
- ageplay
I also do not tolerate any topping-from-the-bottom nonsense. By all means tell me your likes and limits prior to the booking, and do use safewords when you need to, but I ask that you respect me as a professional and do not attempt to take control during the session.
Safe and ethical BDSM
Please let me know of any limits you have, and I shall respect them.
I always require that we establish safewords before any sort of BDSM or kink play. My usual is the traffic light system ("amber" means ease off, and "red" means stop altogether), but let me know if you have a preference of your own.
Three steps for booking time with me:
1. Make sure you've read the "about me" section! Don't approach me asking for services that I don't offer. You'll only be disappointed.
2. Send me an email telling me a little about what you'd like to experience. I appreciate directness. If you prefer me to take charge and decide what we do, that's also fine, just let me know in advance if you have any limits or preferences. Also please let me know what time/day you were hoping to see me.
3. I'll respond as soon as possible (usually within a few hours, unless it's the middle of the night). If I'm happy to book you, and once we've worked out a time, I'll ask you to place your slot using the booking form. And then we're all set for fun times :)
Deposits
I will request a deposit of £20 for certain first-time bookings, at my discretion. This is to deter timewasters. My usual deposit method is via Amazon e-gift card. It will come off your your total payment, so for example if you booked an hour it would only be £100 to pay in person.
The deposit is non-refundable, but if you contact me to cancel or if I have to cancel due to unforeseen circumstances, your deposit can be transferred to a future meeting so you won't have to pay again. If you fail to show up, act inappropriately towards me, or cancel twice in a row, then your deposit will be lost.
A few more important things to be aware of:
- I take my health very seriously (I'm immuno-compromised, so viruses can be life-threatning to me). If you at all suspect you may be coming down with something or have been exposed to something contagious, please kindly message me to cancel our booking, and we will reschedule it for when you are feeling better.
- If you turn up under the influence of alcohol or any other substance which impairs judgement I will turn you away
- If you are clearly under age, I will turn you away (if you look very young, I recommend you bring ID with you. You can cover up your name with your thumb if you like, and just show me the photo and DOB).
- If you are rude, aggressive or cross my boundaries at any point then I will end our session immediately
- And finally it should go without saying but please wash beforehand!
If you can stick to all these things then I will be delighted to spend time with you :)
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